Appreciating My Gifts

Happy Thanksgiving Soul Sisters,
     Today as I prepare to do all the pre-Thanksgiving preparations, I made a decision. I wish I had made this choice years ago when my kids were small and the messes were bigger, but I am grateful I made it today. 
     I am going to be appreciative of my gifts. Not the kind under the tree or any special talent I may possess, but I am going to be thankful for the unwelcome gifts. Like the rug I vacuumed yesterday that is full of crumbs and chocolate chips hiding under pillows and blankets because last night our living room was filled with laughter and cuddling by kids happy to be together once again. 
     I'm going to be okay with going to the store for the 100th time because my husband ate the french fried onions that go on top of the green bean casserole and my daughter's college friend ate all of my hummus. I am choosing to be grateful when one more thing is added to the already overcrowded menu because a little voice says, "it's my favorite."
     When my guests walk through the door this Thanksgiving I will not care about the smudges on my windows, my table that is not Martha Stewart perfect, or my floors that will need mopped once again. In fact, I will look at them as a gifts. Presents that will force me to see what is really important: the people who made the messes and the hearts that live in them. This year, I am going to cherish the giggles, the sink full of dishes, and the preparation that takes hours for the meal devoured in minutes. As I look around my table, I am going to be thankful for the chairs that are filled, the stomachs that are full, and the family and friends that make up my messy life.
     I wish each and every one of you a holiday full of peace and good memories.


Love your soul sister, Angie